How to tell if somebody is genuinely interested in you/values you, etc. (family, friends, etc.): If you removed all of your effort from the equation would any communication remain between you? If not, there is nothing there and you deserve better.
I was hoping that you would come to your senses quickly and realize I didn't deserve what you did to me and find some way to make it up to me, I guess that I didn't really know who you were because I thought friendship, respect, and loyalty were important