Monachopsis ~ The subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place (Koenig has coined dozens of words since he founded the site in pinpointing and defining emotions many people have felt but haven’t been able to communicate.
stopped trying to “pass” as male. She dropped the self-defined-as-male uniform, the stereotyped swagger and the fake-deepened voice and just—moved on. Her fervent desire to be seen and treated as a boy faded away, just as other formerly unshakable ideas and urges had in the past. And our relationship has never been better.