Millennials have been criticised for being selfish or "me me me", but they don't see it that way, they have just taken the tools given to them and ran with it, to make it happen and push the boundaries. They decide what they are and self define themselves. Perhaps it is a generational thing where everyone looks to the generation below as more self absorbed?
Gratitude: The Mega Strategy for Happiness and Wellbeing
have to love this! first and foremost, it seems, we should be in love with our own selves ... we may never find 'the one,' there may or may not be that one. but there is always the most important one: our selves.