Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all (1 Corinthians 13:4 - 13:7 ESV)
I was just talking to my wise dad about this. Take pride in the hard work you have done even if you didn't get exactly what you want. You are stronger with every situation you have gone through and it makes you who you are. Everything has a plan and with every good/bad/disappointing experience you have gone through, you are going towards something great.