fem-i-nist: advocating social, political, legal, and economic rights for women equal to those of men. "Seriously, what kind of person doesn't want this?" "When anyone claims they aren't a feminist, I assume they don't know what they're talking about." [click on this image to find a short video, which explores popular misconceptions about feminists]
Dictionary.com’s Word of the Day - cavil - to raise irritating and trivial objections; find fault with unnecessarily (usually followed by at or about ): He finds something to cavil at in everything I say.
This is rape culture, sold to us by every media form since the Bible. (yes, I'm sure you could cite even earlier yet that book is the "moral guidepost" that makes this so easily ingrained from babyhood.) It's a violent, ridiculous, false moral, construct.