Narcissists are extremely sneaky. They will use your reactions to what they have done to you, in an effort to make you look crazy. They do this by telling others only half of the actual occurrence, and conveniently leave out their actions.
Those who deceive hide their deceit by playing the victim! They do this to make us feel guilty for suspecting their dishonesty! By making us feel guilty they manipulate in order to cover tracks! GLAD I NEVER PLAY THE VICTIM!
It's always someone else's fault. The only apology you'll ever hear is." The 'I'm sorry but' is not an apology but a blame - shifter. When someone knows damn well they owe you an apology they become obsessed with discrediting you.