The only way to win with a toxic person is not to play. I love this quote - just so full of wisdom and inspiration.

The only way to win with a toxic person is not to play. I love this quote - just so full of wisdom and inspiration.

Recently I was dealing with one, who was trying to lead a double life by lying to me and another girl residing on the other side of the ocean (so very convenient).These lies and abuse went on for over 6 months. In the end he was just looking for someone to marry for a visa, and after he understood I was not a "safe bet" and easy to manipulate, showed his true face. So my advice in such cases: run!

Recently I was dealing with one, who was trying to lead a double life by lying to me and another girl residing on the other side of the ocean (so very convenient).These lies and abuse went on for over 6 months. In the end he was just looking for someone to marry for a visa, and after he understood I was not a "safe bet" and easy to manipulate, showed his true face. So my advice in such cases: run!

If they made a monster out of you because you walked away from their drama, so be it. Let them deal with what they have created. Be at peace with yourself & stay out of the conflict.

If they made a monster out of you because you walked away from their drama, so be it. Let them deal with what they have created. Be at peace with yourself & stay out of the conflict.

Silent treatment. A way to block you out. They want to do all the talking, but the minute you disagree with them, they act like immature children.

Silent treatment. A way to block you out. They want to do all the talking, but the minute you disagree with them, they act like immature children.

Hypervigilance. Irritation. PTSD. Anxiety. abuse. narcissist. emotional abuse. narcissist spouse. dealing with a narcissist. gaslighting. manipulation. narcissist relationship.

Hypervigilance. Irritation. PTSD. Anxiety. abuse. narcissist. emotional abuse. narcissist spouse. dealing with a narcissist. gaslighting. manipulation. narcissist relationship.

Disrespect. Always expect it when dealing with a narc or an abusive person. It makes them feel big and tough.

Disrespect. Always expect it when dealing with a narc or an abusive person. It makes them feel big and tough.

Narcissists are notorious for treating the general public much better than the people closest to them. Why is this? Narcissists are intensely concerned with the quality of their public image or "billboard".amen!

Narcissists are notorious for treating the general public much better than the people closest to them. Why is this? Narcissists are intensely concerned with the quality of their public image or "billboard".amen!

Do you know how sometimes you have a bad day, and it may cause you to be a bit short with your kid or partner? And then, later, you go to them and say: I am sorry I was short with you, I was just worried/tired/busy/other, …     We all do that, right? Well, not the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.

The Blissful World Where the Narcissist Is Never To Blame

Do you know how sometimes you have a bad day, and it may cause you to be a bit short with your kid or partner? And then, later, you go to them and say: I am sorry I was short with you, I was just worried/tired/busy/other, … We all do that, right? Well, not the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.

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