How Not To Date A Single Mom.... Seriously.... I like this article bc of the boundaries it describes.... My front door is not a revolving door.... I do not want my child to think relationships are disposable...Dating me is not a relationship with my child... Since my divorce (3yrs), my child has met one man ( who I honestly believed was it)! Do not ask to meet my child on our third date.... I don't even know if I like you that much!