It's called a vision board. Write it down, draw a picture, post a photo from a magazine, internet, etc. Know what you want...visualize it, work towards it...every single day...and watch it come into fruition. It's energy, the law of attraction, or whatever you want to call it. :)
This is just a growing pain. Not a personal attack; one way or the other. Ppl generally don't grow at the same rate. But it's important to understand the difference between LOVE & a growing pain. A blessing or a lesson.