You are not a victim of circumstance; nor of fate, destiny, or bad luck. Your path was paved by the choices you’ve made in the past and the excuses you make in the present. “But, those weren't choices. They were mistakes”, you say. A mistake.
There is no reset button in life. You can't take anything back, and you can't undo anything. All of your actions have consequences, and the things you say and do today will have a lasting impact on the rest of your life. You have to understand that, and y
the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.