It's been 4 years since you've seen her. You haven't paid child support like a real man would, you don't ask how she's doing. You abandoned her & neglecting her since you stopped showing up to court dates 4 years ago. Stop blaming your problems on everyone else. You & your wife are the reason you are in the situation you are in.
The number of child support payments for the right amount since he has took ownership/plowing is def. this. But hey let's file an extension to keep running it catches up with your buddy it's called back CS:)
Too bad my husband's ex-wife hoards all his child support payments and lies to her daughter, telling her they have no money..... But thats ok, we can sleep good at night knowing he pays his child support AND we give his daughter the life she deserves while she is with us!
Each parent is equally responsible for providing for the financial needs of his or her child. But the court cannot enforce this obligation until it makes an order for support. When parents separate, a parent must ask the court to make an order establishing parentage (paternity) and also ask the court to make an order for child support. http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-support.htm