"Transformation isn't sweet and bright. It's a dark and murky, painful pushing. An unraveling of the untruths you've carried in your body. A practice in facing your own demons. A complete uprooting before becoming."—Victoria Erickson
A message to all bullies who treat their victim(s) like they are worthless, then play the victim when they are confronted for their abuse, and act stunned when people want to end the relationship with them.
I fell for this with a guy once. No matter how hard they try, you will never be able to fit that mold. Find someone that accepts you for you and only wants to improve you, not change you. There is a difference.
It is amazing, when we look back on what we thought we knew for absolutely sure that we wanted — even things we grieved over because they never happened. It is amazing how blessed we are that those things never happened or because we never ‘got’ the things we thought for sure that we wanted. You are in the middle point of here to there. If things haven’t worked out, they aren’t done working out yet....