Start at the end. Instead of working towards the flick, perfect your flick first, and then draw into the eye, for some reason drawing downwards creates a smoother application, while pulling the skin taut can help stop any lumps or bumps. - See more at: http://www.careergirldaily.com/how-to-apply-flawless-eyeliner/#sthash.XlFGrXEi.dpuf
Dude, use brown eyeliner. It won't be as intense on your white ass skin, and it will look bomb with your blue eyes. Idk if I'd try cat eye on you, but hey, whatever floats your boat, dude. Also, MASCARA. That should always be your go to.