But therein lies the problem, you can't expect others to do as you would... this is something my girls deal with. My hubby and I will do anthing for our girls and so they think others will too. They are always there for their friends no matter what. Many times they are let down by others. Hard to know because many people are not themselves when you first meet them so how to know who is real and who is only there for what they can take?
This has happened to many of my friends in the past and I hate it! *5pm* no.1-"my mum can take you home" no.2-"oh thank you!" *7pm* no.3-"my dad can take you home" no.2-"ok I'll go with you then, no.1 I can't go home with you anymore, I have better people to be with"