“How does one become a butterfly?” ~ Pooh asked pensively. / “You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar,” ~ Piglet replied. / “You mean to die?” asked Pooh. / “Yes and no” he answered. “What looks like you will die, but what’s REALLY you will live on.” ~~~ A.A. Milne
Butterflies only work if you believe. I believe that you will not cut with your butterflies. It doesn't matter if someone doesn't draw the butterfly on you, just name it after a loved one. I will name my butterflies Harry, Ron, Hermione, and Jo.