Manipulative people latch on to empathetic targets and exploit their innate qualities. They find people who are easy-going, gentle and kind - who avoid conflict and seek to make others happy. The Problem: They reciprocate none of these things. Instead, they feel entitled to your constant forgiveness and self-blame. If you set boundaries or say no, you will be punished for reacting to their abuse. Toxic people constantly look to blame the victim.

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They live in self pity and blame others for their sadness and pain when it's no one else's fault. They are lonely beyond words.

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3 ways to fail at everything in life: 1. Complain about everything. 2. Blame others for your problems. 3. Never be grateful.

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BLIND TO THE SINS OF OTHERS “We must accuse ourselves, blame ourselves, judge ourselves. We see people’s sins, but we don’t know whether they have made peace with God. We don’t know if the person who...

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blaming others quotes The day you stop blaming others is the day you begin to discover who you truly are.

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Recovery from Emotionally Abusive Relationships Education about Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other Toxic People. Don't be a victim, don't just survive, Thrive LET THIS BOARD BE YOUR AHA MOMENT, PLEASE SHARE!!!

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Don't blame your behavior on someone else. You are 100% responsible no matter how bad you are feeling or what's happening in your life.

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Taking responsibility means to stop blaming others for your mistakes. You ignored the red flags and you fed the beast, instead. You're part to blame for being in a toxic relationship. Accept your mistakes,.. forgive yourself,.. and move on. Not an easy thing to do, but you can do it!

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