I don't care what you think about me and if you're the kind of person that is going to judge me because I don't fit into the standard box of this world, I don't care if you don't talk to me. I will still love me and I will still pray for you. Romans 12:2
Believe it or not, in reality, many people will define you by your mistakes. But never let your soul fall for it. you are not defined by your mistakes. As for the people, those who care, don't matter..and those who matter, don't care.
Unfortunately, people today think it is okay to slander, judge, and speak rudely to and about other people. If we just took a moment to think about the old adege "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all," then our world would be so much happier.