Not my words, but agree 100%- Scott/ Character is revealed in certain, sometimes subtle, ways. For example, pay attention to how people treat waiters/waitresses and anyone in jobs of service. If they give them a hard time, order them around, etc., it speaks volumes about their POOR character. Yet, when confronted with this, they always justify their behavior. RUN, don't walk, far away from these people.
It means we can move on without the burden of their wrongdoing occupying our every thought.If someone hurts you badly chances are they are hurting badly inside themselves,and will continue to blame others until they take responsibility for their bad choices/actions.Hurt people ,Hurt people,Thats how it's passed on, unless we stop the flow with forgiveness.Namaste.
Narcissists try to abuse others under the guise of sarcasm and cutting jokes. If their target challenges them about their behavior, narcissists claim that the target is too sensitive, melodramatic or does not get their humor. It is not humor. It is abuse. The proof is that narcissists can never handle the same form of humor directed at them.