Never, yes and neither are you. Anyway its not about 'importance' its about deserving. Why should i keep being nice to a guy who only ever abuses me, rarely replies, and just mocks and ridicules me, tells me not to take anything seriouosly, and basically shows me no compassion ever but expects it by the bucket load in return? Why? Oh i ow, coz i should be his dirty rag, his doormat, his 'broken' woman. Well FUCK YOU SHAYLER NAZI CREEP, NO.