We often imagine honesty to be brutal, cruel. Well, it can seem that way, at least if we've been living a lie. But in reality, honesty is far gentler and more exacting-- and THAT'S really why it disturbs us.
An insult which sends us in tailspin triggers our Ego because we were insulted that way as a young child. Our Ego then reacts by seizing control of our reactions and making us feel the way we felt then. The way we react is called a defense mechanism;
Before we fully recover it's a tricky time for us when we still feel the emotional pull, and it's the time when we need gentle but firm parenting from ourselves to bring us back to the reality of the situation.
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