The problem with making assumptions is that we believe they are the truth. We make an assumption. We misunderstand. We take it personally. Then we react by sending emotional poison with our word. This creates a whole big drama for nothing.
There are so many different levels of perception. Ye,t if how one perceives in not filtered through integrity, there is no plausibility of communication. and some people think it's jealousy when you just explain a simple feeling.