I have uranus exalted (Aquarius's RULING planet) I play the game very well. I can also stop playing and move on whenever I feel like it. Aquarius energy is full of shocks and surprises, but it also holds a GOOD deal of DISCIPLINE.
use the silent treatment because they know when they're mad, they can say very, very, mean, ruthless things. Or because I've had enough of your foolishness and I don't want to talk to your stupid ass right now. Or maybe not ever.