If you Google "love yourself" you'll find a plethora of thoughts on the subject. What if there's more to it than those simple answers. What if God's way of loving yourself is not only better it will make you more content and happier.
Dear Heavenly Father, I bring my husband before you today asking that you would bless him and shape him into the man he was designed to be. Give him strength to lead our family, as Christ led the church with love and humility. Equip him with wisdom to make good decisions that are pleasing to you.