Don't be the one whose bitterness, smallness, and insecurities spill over into other peoples lives. Don't ever let others make you feel like a victim. Sensitivity and a big heart that is easily broken does not equal victim!
"When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suppress deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending." Quote By Thich Nhat Hanh