This is why I insisted with my X that ALL communication be in writing. either text or email. He always wanted to talk on the phone, but I refused. I told him to leave messages and I would get back to him in writing. I recorded every single message.
Leaving a narcissist is never easy! Get THIS – my ex, in conjunction with my own jealous sister, actually offed my own mother, because she kept refuting his sensationalized allegations and lies against me in court. Why he thinks no one would TELL me is beyond me, and I'm pretty sure I'm still in shock over that revelation and haven't fully come to terms with it yet, I'm in disbelief that it's actually my life :-/