BS! We have expectations and when there are things we see that isn’t right we expect our partner to change it for the betterment of the relationship. So its normal to make changes when you want to make it the best relationship ever or you want to make it last.
My children are my life. I better myself everyday for them. I love being able to walk in the door each day with them coming to me with a hug. That's the greatest feeling in the world. It never gets old. Even after 11 years..