Your success in life is determined by one thing - your character. And that, in turn, is created and shaped in your earliest years. Make sure to instill good/tough character in your kids early on, otherwise they'll fail the most trivial tasks.
Creating Credible Female Villains -note to self use this for the blue war. Also, borderline personality disorder is rarely done right I books, and is a cop-out. I know people with bpd and they are not villains, just difficult to understand.