you will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. true power is sitting back and observing everything with logic. If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Exactly my first year of marriage. And why my heart broke. It wasn't even that I was crying. It was that he had always cared so much if I shed a tear and then he went to sleep with me sobbing nightly on the couch. So much truth to this.