Though there are rare exceptions, the majority of people who self harm do not want attention. They are ashamed and terrified of self harming, but can not stop. Instead of judging, try reaching out to someone with a self harm addiction.
Philophobia: fear of emotional attachment; fear of being in, or falling in love. There is no real love to be found in toxic relationships, and the only emotional attachment you will form will be an unhealthy one.
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