I see these posts around Facebook every day, and often think "Yes, I want that, I want that for the people I know..." etc. But today I found myself realizing something... there's all these nice posts about wanting this, but very few ever cross my newsfeed about wanting to BE THIS for their husband or wife. It made me sad. I want to be this for my husband... and that includes the part of accepting who he isn't. I think we get so focused on ourselves, what we want, and romanticize the idea that if
