Your are your 'selfish' years. It's a decade to immerse yourself in every single thing possible. Be selfish with your time and all the aspects of you. Tinker with shit, travel, explore, love a lot, love a little and never touch the ground.
Loving myself has always been my hardest battle. I've always given my love away too easily in hopes of being loved enough to make up for it, but I know now that isn't the answer. Never again. Isn't this the damn truth